Happy Birthday to ME!

Today, a package came for ME, and what do you think it was? The greatest birthday (early, but still birthday) present EVER! 

Is the suspense killing you? 

It's the complete season of GILMORE GIRLS on DVD. It came packaged in this cute case that looks like it should contain a barbie doll and included all 7 seasons packaged so cutely; 

a book of Gilmore-isms (LOVE it!); and a Episode guide full of photos!

Here it is .... I am a HAPPY girl!

Here's a close up of the case ... It's so adorable!

 

Anyone who knows me, knows I have watched it from the day it started, and then recorded it afterwards. I watch the season over and over again. 

Yes, I love it THAT much!

I'm very excited to start watching and have a few Gilmore Girl Marathons!

Even though David didn't pick it out. I did, and ordered it on Amazon myself (love Amazon!) - it's still the perfect gift from him : ) Thank you sweet husband! Happy early Birthday to me!

Now, I must go .... I have Gilmore Girls to watch : )

Mom's are Glue!

Do you feel sticky?

If you are a mom, you do. Kids hanging on you all day. 'Mom' this and 'Mom' that.

But, even more than that, you are the glue that holds your family together. Moms set the tone, the mood in their families. When Mom's doing well, all is well. When Mom is struggling...the entire family feels the pain.

If you are feeling the weight of parental responsibility, but are not sure what fulfilling that obligation looks like, you are not alone.

Here are some simple guidelines to help your family "stick together" in greater harmony. As Mom, your leadership (stickiness) can go a long way in promoting each of these crucial areas.

• Stability

Kids need to know there are constants in their lives. In fact, the more change a child experiences in one part of his life the more stability he generally needs in another. That's why parents REALLY matter. From a child's perspective, parents are the number one constant in his young life.

• Structure

In some ways, structure is stability on a schedule. For children, the simple fact of knowing that we do everyday chores like eat dinner and ready for bedtime at the same time or in the same way each day adds to a sense of security. As a mom, you can determine the schedule that's right for your family. You don't need to be rigid with this schedule, just dependable. It is important because it shows children that their needs will be met in a constant, consistent manner day in and day out. It also shows kids that they can genuinely count on the adults who care for them.

• Mood

As mentioned before, when Mom's up, everybody's feeling better. When Mom's down, the whole house is dragging. Don't believe me? Observe your own household for a week or two. Your influence as a mom is immense. By paying attention to the words you use and being mindful of your own moods, you can effectively teach your children to live out of their wills and not their emotions.

• Vision/Purpose

Do you have a road map for your family? It's much easier to deal with the daily grind when you have a deeper purpose in mind. Think about what hopes, dreams and goals you have for yourself, your marriage and your children. Spend time together developing family goals. This can effectively lead into...

• Teamwork

The family that knows where they are going as a cohesive, unique unit gives each of their individual members a greater stake in the outcome. Everyone learns what they bring to the team and at this point Mom becomes the family cheerleader; encouraging, supporting, and keeping the family on task, heading in the right direction.

• Integrity

Kids want to believe their moms. Period. When you say what you mean and mean what you say, you wield an even greater power within your family structure. You gain respect. When you speak, family members will listen to you...deep inside, where it truly counts.

Being a mom means you are a person of great power. Never again will another human being be so attracted to your influence. Use this power wisely. Be the best mom you can be to your precious family.

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by Colleen Langenfeld / Copyright (c) 2004
http://www.paintedgold.com/Kids/Kids-2.html

July 4th weekend!

Typically we go to Misty's house for the 4th of July to have a cook-out, swim and pop fireworks. But, unfortunately, this year - there was a state wide burn ban. Which means - no personal fireworks.

Our neighbors next door were out of town, and our other neighbors were babysitting the pool - so we hung w/them and swam a lot.

On July 3rd - we met our neighbors (The Jones') at our other neighbors pool, brought our own picnic lunch and swam for a few hours. The boys (totally 6 - her 3 and my 3), had a great time.

The Jones' boys, and Ben, Will & Andy

Little pool fun : )

Popsicle time! This time w/our neighbors dog, Bella : )

We finished hanging w/the Jones' and came home. 

Then the girl across the street, came over to swim and hang out : )

 

 Time for some refreshing popsicles : )

After our company left and it got dark - we went up to the park to watch the fireworks. We only made it in time to watch it for 10 minutes, unfortunately - but it was still nice. Next year, if there's a burn ban and we can't go to Misty's - we'll plan ahead of time and make sure we are able to see the whole firework show.

Until next year .... Happy 4th of July, friends!

Teddy Swimming!

So, Teddy loves the water. Well - at least the little plastic baby pool, he does. He jumps in and out. Plays w/the water hose in it. He loves it. So, I thought since he loved that so much that he would love to swim in a real pool. I thought, he's an Irish Terrier - he's got huge feet - surely he'll like to swim.

WRONG!

I got him into the pool, just the way Cesar Millan's (http://www.cesarsway.com, the Dog Whisper) says to do it. I thought I did a pretty good job of that. Well, not so much. Teddy wasn't at all interested in swimming and proceeded to climb up my body like a small kid (he's 50 pounds). 

And here's what I got ....

In his defense, he wasn't trying to hurt me - he was just quite freaked out. I hope when we have a 'real pool' of our own, he will get in on his own and figure out that swimming is fun as well as good for him. I can just see him jumping in and out, diving for balls .... at least that's my dream anyways : )

The only good part of it, was that the 10 minutes (if that) he was in the pool ..... wore him completely out. Which, for those of you who have heard me complain about him and his abundance of energy - know that's a difficult task.

So - here he laid for the rest of the day. I got a little war wound - but I got a day of rest from my puppy : )

Pool!

We have wanted a pool for quite sometime now. We have been toying w/the idea of putting in an in-ground pool here. We checked prices and got some quotes. And after that ..... decided that it's more of an investment than we want to make at this house.

So - we do plan to move in 1-2 years to a bigger house (we're busting out of the seams) w/a pool. We are saving, and making repairs to our house now. But in the meantime - we needed a pool. So, we put in an above ground pool. It's a cheap pool - from Academy, but it definitely will serve the purpose. We hope to get 2 summers out of it, but if we can't - we definitely got our money's worth for what it cost - we are satisfied.

Since our yard is fairly slopey - we had to call in re-inforcements to help. Our babysitters brother, Jake Hering, was up for the task .... w/the help of Jamie. We love the Herings - they are so good to us! They worked for 2 days to level the ground for the pool. 

Here's David and Andy measuring the yard for the pool.

 

Jamie & Jake hard at work : )

Jake & Jamie got a little (very little) help from Ben : )

Jamie had a friend visiting her, and she put him to work too. And she recruited Will & Andy.

This was the fun stage. Filing the hole w/water and playing in the mud : )

Her friend broke both of his shoes in the mud (poor guy) ... and I think - they buried them in the mud : )

Retaining wall up, hole dug, leveled and ready for the pool....

The pool ... w/o water....

And it's done! Yea .... the boys love it and love to swim.

We only wish we could build some type of deck so that they would have a place to jump. 

But since it's only 42" deep - probably not a good idea anyway.

The boys love the pool and it works out great. All 3 of them can touch, so it's not as big of a worry as a deeper pool would be. We are thankful to be able to have a place to cool off this summer...

David has been doing a great job taking care of the pool and keeping it up and testing the chlorine and such. He's having a lot of fun. This is his trial run for when we have a 'real' pool of our very own for him to care for. We are all excited for that day ... but until then, we'll swim in our little pool.

Photos from David's Childhood....

I was going through some stuff and found these pictures from David's childhood and I thought I would post. I don't have a lot of information surrounding them. Hopefully when David's mom comes to visit, I can have her sit w/me and tell me where/when these photos were taken.

What I find most interesting about them, is that our boys don't really resemble David too much as a child. I think Ben looks like him now - but not as a child. There's a few pictures - where I can see the boys a little. But it's not distinctive, like it is w/me and the boys. Maybe I'm wrong. What do you think?

David (5 days old) and Aunt Claudia

David 5 months old

David, almost 1 - summer 1965

David (almost 1) and Aunt Claudia. Summer 1965 in Ft. Meade, MO

David - 1.5 years old

I do think Andy looks a little like David in this photo.

Aunt Claudia, Oma and David (almost 2)

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I think William looks a little like him here. 
David's the one in the middle : )

David's 7th birthday. December 23, 1971

I do see Will in this picture too.

David (7 years old) and Aunt Claudia. Christmas 1971

I think this one resembles Ben a bit.

David

David

Opa, Aunt Claudia, David and Oma

David, Oma & Opa

What's interesting ... is a lot of times, Ben looks like this picture. 

David

I do have more pictures from David's life and I will dig those out and post them here as well. I want my boys to see their daddy when he was younger and see where he came from. I think it's important : )

David's Father's Day!

I am so thankful for such an amazing man who loves his boys so completely w/seldom complaining. He gives of himself in anyway possible and thoroughly enjoys the memories he's making w/his 3 sons.

I know, I am one lucky lady - to have him as the father of my 3 sons. I know he will mold them into the kind, caring, loving, hardworking, well-mannered man that he is.

Here's a few pictures I dug up of him and the boys when they were born ...

 David and Ben

  David and Will

 

David and Andy

 

We love you David and we know that your Father's Day will be as deserving as you are. We love you very much!

Happy Father's Day!

David and I are blessed to have two great, great men as our Father's. 

I love my daddy with my all my heart. He's a man of integrity with a big heart. He's kind, compassionate, giving, and loving. And mostly he loves my mom and his 5 children. And for that I'm thankful! Happy Father's Day, Daddy - I love you!

Photo taken Father's Day 2009

David's father was very similar to mine and shared a lot of the same characteristic. I, unfortunately, never got to meet him. But I know from the man he raised to be my husband that he, himself, could have been nothing less than amazing!

I know David misses his father very much and thinks about him often. And I know that he wishes he were here to see his 3 grandsons grow up, and carry on his family name.

Happy Father's Day to you, dear sweet Daddy! We love you!

I am not certain when this photo was taken, but it's one of the only ones we have of David's father.

Happy Father's Day to two great men - whom we love and cherish daily! Thank you for all the sacrifices you made for us and your family! We love you!

Happy Birthday KUMA!

Today, my sweet girl is 12! She's the last of my old bunch. She's the most wonderful dog and I'm so lucky she'll have me as her human. 

Today, the boys and I had a birthday party to honor her. We hung up our traditional birthday sign, we bought Frosty Paws for the dogs, and ice cream for the boys. 

Will was so cute, he didn't want her to be outside while we hung the sign b/c he wanted her to be surprised. That's my boy! He's so loving towards all! 

We hung the sign, went in to grab the camera and came out and she was laying next to it. Definitely a picture moment : )

We gave her her treat first. She loved it! The boys were so happy she was so happy : )

 

The boys and the dogs enjoying the party and their ice cream : )

 

Kuma is starting to slow down now. She's not able to jump in the truck like she use too. I just pray that God gives us many, many more years w/her. 

Happy Birthday Kuma - we love you, moochie!

Teddy Boy ....

Today, Teddy is 8 months old. He's getting bigger and bigger, and completely warming his way straight into our hearts. He's the sweetest dog, w/the biggest personality and we are head over heels in love w/him.

Although we are in love w/him - his constant chewing and destroying things w/his mouth .... well, we're not in love w/that. We will be so happy when that stage passes. When is that again? haha!

He was laying on the floor 'chillaxin' and I snuck up and was able to grab a few photos of my sweet boy.

At 42 pounds, he hasn't quite grown into those huge paws.

So thankful for our sweet boy. Happy Birthday, love : )

It's summatime....

The boys had early dismissal today. So after I picked them up, we went straight to Cool Cuts and got their new do's for the summer. We've been growing their hair out the whole school year - just for these summa cuts : )

Before

In Progress

Ben : )

Ben : )

Andy's hiding .... he wasn't real sure : ) By the way, that's a tiny bench that he's hiding under. Haha!

William : )

Andy wasn't real cooperative, but he was happy in the end : )

Here's my 3 guys after - Totally Rawking their Hawks!!! Will has a blue hawk, Andy a green (of course) and Ben a red : )

Happy SUMMA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!